Signs he no longer loves you
How do we know when a man is a waste of time? Pay attention and make sure your man doesn’t do any of these things.
He Cancels the Last Minute.
If he doesn’t keep his words or promises, flaky men, men who kind of say something, but then do another.
Those men are either mentally not trustworthy, meaning that it might not even be something that has to do with you.
They’re just like not 100% mentally there. They are perhaps selfish or have their own issues that make them become this way.
That’s one, of course the most common one is that men who are a little bit all over the place and do whatever they want and what they care for besides the aspect that they might just be selfish people often times they wouldn’t do this to a woman they deeply care for.
So, this is something you have to pay attention to. If a man is flakier, he’s not valuing you. And this is a bit of harsh reality or harsh fact to accept.
But you kind of need to digest this one and not selling yourself short, because if he keeps canceling last minute and just does what he wants to do and doesn’t take you into account, then I’m sorry to say, but he’s definitely not a keeper.
He is inconsistent.
One day he seems to be really into you. The next day, it looks like he doesn’t care anymore, which is very frustrating for many women.
And when a man is this inconsistent, many women become more obsessed and kinder of more in love with a man this way. This is why bad boys are so popular.
Bad boys are so inconsistently.
One day they’re all over you, and then the next day they’re so cold. And that’s kind of what makes you feel infatuated by them.
But this is so incredibly unhealthy, particularly if you want to find a really long-lasting, serious, and genuine relationship. You need to have somebody who is consistent with his love for you, not somebody who is just again being flakier.
It’s important that in a relationship, you shouldn’t always be kind of worried.
You shouldn’t always be thinking. Does he really love me? You should really feel to the core that your man loves you, that he adores you.
That you are his number one, and he has to make you feel like that consistently. Surely you know, relationships are ups and downs, but there’s always a red thread.
If this man is inconsistent with this red thread, you are unsure of his feelings towards you.
That is a big warning sign.
You really need to take precautions then and maybe get out before you really get hurt or if you know that you are seriously dating all these bad boys.
Stop dating bad boys. Most bad boys are a waste of time, energy. And if you know that you are dating a bad boy who’s causing you so much headache. But you still love him deeply.
Get out! Get out now it’s not worth it.
He Keeps Talking to Other Girls on Social Media
He’s not really that serious if he keeps talking to other girls on social media, and I don’t care if it’s just friends; it is not okay if this man is with you.
If he’s serious with you and keeps messaging with all these women, it’s a warning sign, and it’s also a sign of disrespect.
Believe me, when a man is really into a woman and really crazy about a woman, he’s not going even to be interested in talking to all these girls.
And it’s just such an obvious sign that he’s texting with other women because he’s looking what else is out there?
Because he’s not sure about this woman.
And this is the thing, do you want to be with a man who is not sure if he wants to be with you?
Why would you, as a high caliber woman, waste your time with somebody who hasn’t decided yet? If he wants to be with you, get out.
He Needs Time Away from You.
And let me just clarify this one, because I am a firm believer that it’s incredibly healthy not to be glued to your partner 24 7, and I’m sure a lot of you agree with me on that one.
But what becomes a little bit of a warning sign is when he actually needs a lot of space away from you.
Having a little bit of time away from each other is fine, but when you need a lot of time away from each other, that’s when it becomes a little bit strange.
A common thing that I see is they need the time with the boys, and they cannot be without this precious time they have with their boys.
I think that a woman should be the top priority for a man if they are in a serious, committed relationship piece crazy about her I don’t think it’s normal if a man is prioritizing his friends or the boys.
Many men being so selfish in this department, and many women except being the second option.
That’s why if you really need his independence, and if you really need so much time away from you, ask yourself, is this what you also want? Do you think this is a healthy sign for your relationship?
I mean, some relationships, they work really well this way.
He Rather Spends Time on His Phone Instead Of Spending Time With You.
And this is another one that I see a lot, especially with some of my male friends when they’re really into a woman. Then all of a sudden, they forgot about their phone.
The phone does not really exist, even though they’re busy businessman, their phone and emails go on all the time, but they still managed to take time for this woman that they’re madly in love with and crazy about.
However, when they are with somebody that they’re, you know, she’s a right. But I’m not really that crazy about her. Then you see that they’re prioritizing their phone when you have free time together.
And the man doesn’t necessarily need to be on his phone because of work, but he chooses instead of having some quality time with you.
We also live in an era, and in modern times, many people suffer from phone addiction. So it also could be a phone addiction in disguise. But I can tell you that he will set his priorities differently when a man is into somebody.
The message is not necessarily about the phone, but more about does he give you the attention you want?
Does he want to spend time with you? Or does he prioritize other things?
Because when you are not his top priority, it shows, and it also tells a little bit about how he feels about you. You want to always be somebody’s top priority.
Somebody who values you like you are his queen, like you are his muse, like somebody who doesn’t matter how long you have been together. He always feels strongly about you.
Love does not go away, even if you’re a new old married couple.
He doesn’t want to spend money on You.
Because money is a love language at the end of the day, if you are really into somebody, you want to do everything for that person. You want to give that person the world.
But men and women communicate love a little bit differently. Men a little bit less, nurturing men a little bit more, providing So in this case, a lot of men besides, of course, giving you the attention and giving you love, they also often show that they love you by spending on you.
And when the man is stingy with you, not because he’s necessarily a cheap person, but you can see that he’s holding back from spending on you.
That is often a warning sign that he might not be sure of his love or interest in you, or he might just not be that into you.
Often, women do not understand why he’s not spending, why he’s not spending on me, why he’s not giving me this gift that I wanted, or that sometimes there are, of course, logical reasons to why?
Maybe he doesn’t afford it. Perhaps I don’t know. He’s not that generous after all, in general.
But if you know that he is usually not like this, let’s say he has spent a lot of money on his previous girlfriend that he loved deeply. But then he doesn’t spend on you. That is a warning sign.
You don’t have to break off the relationship just because he doesn’t spend on you, but you really should take it into account and then observe how else he’s treating you. If he’s treating, you would love and care.
And if he’s truly doing everything else for you, then maybe this doesn’t matter so much.
If a man disappears and takes time to get back to you, and you don’t understand, where is he? And why haven’t I heard from him for a while?
Maybe it’s because he’s not that into you, just like they say in that movie. But truly, ladies, this is the case.
Suppose he’s interested in you. He is not going to disappear. He’s going to value the relationship, and he’s not going to take a whole day to respond to your message if he’s into you.
It’s impossible, but setting boundaries with a man. Setting boundaries probably one of the greatest skills you can learn. This is because you’re going to understand the more boundaries you set with men, the higher quality men you will start attracting, and the better treatment you’re going to get from your significant other.
Step up that game and start setting strong boundaries and stop lowering your worth.